Happy experiences make life magical, painful experiences lead to growth. This does not mean we are to seek suffering and provoke pain. There is enough suffering in life. No reason to add to it, but we do with our "unreason". True reasoning is...we must use our suffering when it comes for its Nobel purpose.
Never say to yourself, "I'll be happy when this suffering passes." If you are not happy with things as they are with you now, you will never be. If you wait to get out of jail in order to be free, you'll never be free. Learn how to feel free while you are in jail, and then you can be free anywhere. A Nobel task for a Nobel purpose...
